Get a hearing aid or I’m getting a divorce.
I’ve heard this by hundreds of patients over the last 35 years. It seems hard enough to keep good communication in any marriage over an extended period of time. I know because I have been married for 39 years. I agree with all the experts: it’s all about communication.
Now, imagine you’re living with someone who misunderstands what you are saying. Wish can lead to disagreements and very hurt feelings. On top of that, they are constantly asking you “what” or “excuse me” or pretending to agree with what you said. Then after you repeat to them for the third time with elevated volume, they accuse you of shouting at them and being angry.
This condition doesn’t get better — it gets worse as time goes on. How irritating and frustrating it becomes for both partners. It’s impossible to even relax watching their favorite shows together. One has to have it loud to hear and understand the words; the other can’t take it being so loud. Back and forth — and, well, you know the outcome.
I’ve seen these tiny hearing devices bring entire families closer together.
Please get your hearing checked, and if you need help, get correction. You’ll be glad for the rest of your life.
